Family Mediation
The first step
Working out all the finer details of a shared parenting arrangement can often be a challenge, especially when you are not on the best terms with your ex.
If you are unable to come to an agreement on any aspect, mediation is an invaluable tool to help you come to an arrangement that works for all.
who does the mediation?
During mediation an independent third party (the mediator) will help you both to devise a 'Parenting Plan'.
This is done in a way that each parent is able to put forward their ideas, but ultimately it is what's in the best interests of the children that the mediator will keep the conversation centred around.
It can take place at the offices of the mediator, at a court provided location or more and more often nowadays, online via video link.
WHAT is DISCUSSED AT MEDIATION?
A range of parenting topics can be discussed, from who lives with whom, where the children spend Christmas and birthdays, where and how changeovers take place.
You can agree on jointly making decisions around education, medical, and extra-curricular activities.
However, a parenting plan is neither binding nor enforceable...
Parenting plan vs parenting orders
If there have been instances where your ex has ignored the agreements you made together in a parenting plan, it may be time to consider Parenting Orders.
Seeking Parenting Orders through the court creates much more certainty as they are enforceable, and there are consequences for contravening them.
However, you cannot make an application to the court for Parenting Orders until you have attempted mediation with the other parent.
MAKING AN IMPACT
If you have already tried mediation and are ready for the next step, we can help you to create fair and workable Parenting Orders.
Call us now for your free consultation so we can assess your matter and advise the best way forward for you.
free initial consultation
(30 mins)
This is a confidential phone meeting with our principal solicitor Glen Pitt to talk about your matter. He will:
- Discuss any immediate challenges or risks you may face;
- Answer any specific questions you have;
- Provide preliminary legal outcomes and a strategy for your matter;
- Outline the next steps to move forward.